CHANTING DAIMOKU FOR THE ABSOLUTE HAPPINESS OF THE PERSON WHO WE DESIRE TO HAVE A LOVING & HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH

CHANTING DAIMOKU FOR THE ABSOLUTE HAPPINESS OF THE PERSON WHO WE DESIRE TO HAVE A LOVING & HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH

The key is prayer - chanting daimoku earnestly. When we encounter someone we find hard to deal with, we need to pray sincerely for that person. When we argue or fight with another person, it means that both of our life conditions are low. Praying for the happiness of the other person will greatly elevate our own state of life.

Emotional conflicts are frequently caused by misunderstandings, so it's important that we talk to each other with an open mind. We need to have the courage to engage each other in dialogue.

- Daisaku Ikeda

When you are chanting to be with someone you love, always chant for their happiness first.

We are sometimes afraid to do so, thinking what if their happiness does not include you? What if their happiness means being with someone else? This is when we should realise that no matter how many strategies you make, how many prayers you write, the Gohonzon will always give you results based on your intent.

Love is never selfish, it is always selfless and unconditional. If you love someone, their happiness is what should matter, absolute happiness, then you can't choose what or who will make them happy. You can't have a conditional prayer saying that XYZ will only be happy with me or XYZ's happiness will lie in being with me.

You can of course chant for both your happiness to be linked and connected, and that you will awaken each others happiness, but their absolute happiness should always be first and foremost.

With this intent, unconditional love, and a focused and powerful Daimoku, you will see victory in a way you never imagined !!