HANDLING REJECTION

HANDLING REJECTION 

  

Q. "Sometimes when I try to make new friends, it's like I'm not cool enough for them, and I'm left on the outside looking in." 

  

A. Although it may seem difficult, if you are ignored, rejected or make fun of, try not to be overly worried about it. 

  

According to Buddhist beliefs, those who treat others poorly make bad causes for which they unfortunately will experience the effects, they are truly to be pitied. 

  

At the same time, remember that experiencing rejection and disappointment is an inevitable part of life. Nichiren, whose teachings we in the Soka Gakkai International follow, was also abandoned by many of his followers. I, too, have been betrayed by people whom i trusted and sincerely tried to encourage. But that is something i have learned is inevitable at times. 

  

In the face of rejection, you must learn to be courageous. It is important to believe in yourself. Be like the sun, which shines on serenely even though not all the heavenly bodies reflect back its light and even though some of its brilliance seems to radiate only into empty space. 

  

While those who reject your friendship may sometimes fade out of your life, the more brilliant your life will become. 

  

No matter what other people do, it is important that you walk your own path, believing in yourself. If you stay true to yourself, others will definitely come to understand your sincere intent. 

  

The Way Of Youth pg 26 

SGI President, Daisaku Ikeda